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parrotgirl
04-06-2006, 02:12 PM
Yep, sad but very true. Bucc has decided that during the day I am the best thing since Banana Chips, we have play time, cuddles, loving and coffee (shhhhhhhhhhh his is orange juice, but he doesn't need to know that) together. But when Andi (Hubby) walks through the door after work, thats it. I am the wicked witch of the South East :cryingpup if I should dare touch him he sits there saying OW ow, until I stop. I'll ask for kisses "Nooooooooooo" I'll even ask him if he wants, um coffee (his coffee mind) "Nooooooooo" I ask him if he loves me, "Noooooo bad" What is a gal to do???????????????????????:nuts:
Its a good job I know and love him right, And while I'd never let him know it, it really is sooooooooooooo funny, just to watch the change in him. I am so glad that I did all my research before I got him, otherwise I could have been one unhappy gal.
So the outcome of all this, when I get the next one I'm not even gonna let him look at Andi, I'll cover his eyes whenever he walks through the door. It takes Bucc about 5 seconds after Andi has walked through the door to decide that I am one horrible person and will remain that way until Andi goes to work the folllowing day. LOL :wub:
Shirley
04-06-2006, 02:23 PM
Wow -- never heard that from a grey before... Now Shelby was my "good girl" all day long... until Steve walked through the door... then it was like, forget me, her own private jungle gym was there to play with, hang on, scream on, you name it! She just couldn't have been happier when he walked through the door!
Brandy
04-06-2006, 03:05 PM
well I have read that alot of times in males they adventually change their bond to the opposite sex
but the females are supposed to stay loyal to the person they bonded with
amazing greys
04-06-2006, 03:12 PM
I get almost the same response, but in a nicer way, lol. Both Sinbad and Akeela LOVE when daddy comes home, they both are leaning to get his attention and kisses.
I don't take it personal, hehehe. I just figure they are home with me all day and when dad comes home, it's something different.
But I get most of the lovin :p especially at night when I put them to bed. Both are ready and willing to give kisses and Sinbad always tries to feed me some of his food :wub:
sammiesmom
04-06-2006, 04:36 PM
Sammie could care less if my husband comes home or not. She just looks at him and says, "How ya doing, babe?" She tells him good bye in the morning but other than that, my husband doesn't exist.:D
Elvie likes to share his attention. He's in seventh heaven when we're both in the same room with him. He loves the unity of flock togetherness especially, at night time. If hubby steps outside two long he will softly call daddy, daddy~come're.
Griminsdj
04-06-2006, 10:18 PM
LOL Bucc, Akeela and Sinbad, and Shelby all sound likeittle kids spend all day home with Mom , but when Dad walks int eh door at night, Mom is chopped liver, LOL Woohoo! The Fun Guy is home..time for games and everythign mom doesn't let us do!! LOL
LOL Kelly I think you're on to something.
Peta, Our guys do that when one of us has been gone for a while. Not to the extreme Bucc does with the complete turn around, just happy to see the one that just got home.
Our guys are like Elvie, we both have to be in the room with them or at least say something so they know where the other one is. They go back and forth between us most of the time until bed time. Then it's daddy's boys all the way. And yes I do love it.:) :heart:
Shirley
04-06-2006, 11:49 PM
Kelly - as Elvie has said on the phone to me: "You got that right!"
And weekends... when Steve didn't teach... you'd think Shelby was on speed or sugar pills or something... all weekend long! You could hear her calling for him from a couple blocks away if he left the room or went into the garage... b/c most of the time, he kept her on his shoulder all weekend... but sometimes... he just couldn't... so of course... she called like a 2-yr-old for him.
parrotgirl
04-07-2006, 10:14 AM
Kelly thats the truth, Today he will be my best friend as Andi works nights Friday and Saturdays, so of course I will be the greatest. hehehehe.
He never bites or is nasty that way, so its okay that he loves Andi, I know that he loves me just as much........................................ Just as long as Andi isn't there. lol I love him anyway. :wub: :heart: :wub: He's still my beautiful guy.
Griminsdj
04-07-2006, 03:10 PM
Must be nice to be loved like that huh?! Course the constant callign can be draining, there are days I think if I hear Mom! one more time they will need to take me away to teh funny farm, lol.:rotflmao:
Kelly - as Elvie has said on the phone to me: "You got that right!"
And weekends... when Steve didn't teach... you'd think Shelby was on speed or sugar pills or something... all weekend long! You could hear her calling for him from a couple blocks away if he left the room or went into the garage... b/c most of the time, he kept her on his shoulder all weekend... but sometimes... he just couldn't... so of course... she called like a 2-yr-old for him.
Griminsdj
04-07-2006, 03:12 PM
LOL Peta, who could resist Bucc?!:wub:
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